To attempt to gain the trust of (somebody, especially a minor) with the intention of subjecting them to abusive or exploitative behaviour such as sexual abuse or human trafficking.
1604, short for bridegroom, from Middle English brydgrome, alteration (with intrusive r) of earlier bridegome, from Old English brȳdguma ("bridegroom"), from brȳd + guma. In Middle English, the second element was re-analyzed as or influenced by grom, grome. guma derives from Proto-Germanic *gumô ("man, person"), from Proto-Indo-European *dʰǵʰm̥mō; it is cognate to Icelandic gumi and Norwegian gume and, ultimately, human.
From Middle English grom, grome, of uncertain origin. Apparently related to Middle Dutch grom ("boy"), Old Icelandic grómr, gromr, Old French gromme ("manservant"), from the same Proto-Germanic root. Possibly from Old English grōma, from Proto-Germanic *grōmô, related to *grōaną, though uncertain as *grōaną was used typically of plants; its secondary meaning being "to turn green".
Alternative etymology describes Middle English grom, grome as an alteration of gome with an intrusive r (also found in bridegroom, hoarse, cartridge, etc.), with the Middle Dutch and Old Icelandic cognates following similar variation of their respective forms.
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